♥Life is funny how you leave something because the spark lights the ball and the ball is rolling down the hill, with more kindling adding fire to the ball. Pride gets in the way and in a two or three years you wake up and find yourself in a position and place that is uncomfortable, and you long for that thing that you left. Don’t listen to your friends as they can be the kindling that makes the fire bigger. 

Listen to yourself. Put aside the hurt and your pride. Pride is a hindrance to many things in our life.                                                                           

That person knows how you work, your faults, your gifts, talents and your moods. Your focus has to be on the other person and not yourself. 

The relationship can be repaired if you want if bad enough. Humble yourself when you need to. Listen and understand what that person is saying to you. Don’t make up scenarios that are not true. If you do not understand what they are telling you, ask again to explain it in another way. You have to talk to each other; you cannot be loud and demanding or be quiet and permissive. Non communication or miscommunication is deadly to any relationship. Actions are much more powerful than words.

 It may take some time for that person to come around. Be patient, it is worth it.  You can have a second chance, so go out and get it.♥

Suck it up Crybaby

The Lone Ranger