What do Men really want?

What do Men really want in a Woman? The long age old question that baffles Males through out history. Some times we want our woman to be a bitch and other times a saint. Can we have it both ways? I think We can. Women want a man that is interesting and funny. Have a sense of humor and show her love and she is yours. Women need to respect their men and treat them as the head of their family. Sure lady’s you may be smarter then your man and able to make better choices for your family, But at least involve him and ask for his input to the item in question and come to an agreement before moving forward. Never talk down to him or disrespect him in front of your children or others. You will lose his trust quickly and it will be a long haul trying to gain it back. Men want their women to stay in shape for their age, We understand that you will not have the same body as in your younger days as well as We men will not. Put some effort to look attractive for your man as well as your self. Dorthy, their is no reason to let your ass get to the size of Kansas, I know, I just want to go home, I just want to go home. Shut up Errol you say. I’m just saying the truth. Dude’s your gut should not be the size of the Houston Astro dome. Ladies if your man is attracted to you the romance will be better as well as your whole relationship with your man, plus you will get your way with him much more often. We men are visual creatures and if you are looking good to your man it goes a long ways Ms. Jones. On the other side women can have a knock out figure and have a black heart, and that is worse trust me. We men want our women to be Saints when we are in the public and bitches in the bedroom. Look your best when you and your man are with others and never flirt with other men through words or catching his eyes , We guys notice these things as You lady’s do as well. On the other hand don’t be milk toast to your Man, If you do not agree with his decisions or his life style choices speak up and talk things out, We don’t like wimps. If your Guy does like you to be wimpy he has control issues and You may want to take a second look and exit stage left if he will not change. Do not be a push over to your Man and even be a little bitchy when you need be. The bitchiness adds some spice in the bedroom, Hard for us guys to explain but trust me it does. If you don’t have one or ether of these traits then work on them as practice makes perfect. And always remember lady’s when things get rough or are not going your way to
Suck it up Crybaby
Errol Flynn

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  1. I thank you for Errol’s enlightenment on what men want from women. I find it quite entertaining when a man tells me that “women should OBEY their husbands” as it is decreed in the marriage vows and in God’s Holy Word. However, taken totally out of context, those can be “fightin’ words”. God tells Man to treat his wife with the utmost respect and love, the kind of Love Christ had for the Church, the kind of love that would cause a man to give up his LIFE for his WIFE. I don’t know about you other women, out there, but if I heard a “bump in the night”, my husband always made ME go see what the noise was all about. What we women want from our men are “the little things”. We want to feel safe when you are around – protected. We want to know that you have our backs – no matter what. Or how about a sweet gesture, for instance, an offer to watch the kids so we can go “shopping with no interruptions”. 99% of the time, men come home from a hard day’s work, and if they do not have another agenda, kick back on the couch with remote in hand, and become oblivious to we women while we are hounding the kids to do their homework, complaining because the garbage disposal went out again, and the sink backed up all over the floor, and yes, no one to talk to while we prepare your evening meal. WE NEED TO VENT! Not only vent, but we need someone with “listening ears”. I have been told that men have “selective” hearing. They hear what they want and ignore the rest. When is the last time you thanked your woman for raising your children to be respectful little ladies and gents, washing your dirty clothes, doing the shopping, cooking, cleaning, and bill paying, all while maintaining FULL TIME EMPLOYMENT outside of the home? Or do you just “expect” it? Do you really know what your woman is capable of and what her daily duties entail? Yes, we want to hear all about your day and the issues you encountered at work, but we need you to listen to us as well. I’m telling you men, it’s the little things that make us happy….like caring enough pay attention to us when we complain. Maybe we have some valid points once in awhile, or maybe we just need someone to listen while we talk. (What do you think we do when we are with the girls?) How about a nice gift that was totally unexpected? (Oh, please don’t forget our birthdays, anniversaries, Valentine’s Day or Mother’s Day). Maybe even a love letter left somewhere for her to find – just to let her know how you really feel about her. (It’s called romance, boys, and not just to be had by teenagers). After marriage, it seems like two people get so tied up “doing what they are supposed to do” – men with their jobs (which most of you get your ego boosts from in one form or another), women with their mundane (unless you are a career woman) work for way less than men get paid, plus tending to all of the chores I just mentioned above once they get home. How about just going up to her and looking her in the eyes and with total sincerity, tell her you love her and she is now and will always be the only woman in your life. Listen to me, couples, it’s all about Love and Respect. We women crave love in every way, shape and form, just as you men crave respect in the same ways. So, please, start putting the “little things” into practice before you, too, end up as one of our nations’ divorce statistics, and one or the other of you comes up and says “we’ve just grown apart”. Sometimes one learns a lesson in life a little too late. Trust me – been there, done that, and yes, I got the tee shirt!

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